This word Ego is very small if I count its words but its impact is very devastating . It drifts the closed ones , friends, happiness , peace of mind very far away from us .I know many of us are suffering from this and somewhere in the ride of life we leave behind our closed ones due to this , but we deny to admit this . You all may be surprised that howcome my notions jumped on this subject .Few days back somebody decided to leave due to their Ego, then i decided to write about this simple looking but the biggest enemy of self .
Life is very small , and this monster Ego makes it even smaller . The beauty of this disease is that it plays with our heart and brain .Our heart always forced us to kick on the communication by putting up sweet memories of good days in front of us , but then suddenly mind started putting bizzare questions
Why should i talk to him/her ?
If he/She does not care for me why i will care ?
If i call him/ Her or initiate communication i will become smaller?
It comes in many forms, sometimes being stubborn, sometimes anger, sometimes inability to tell truth and then getting yourself engaged thinking that things will not disturb you and you become happy for certain time. But in long run this happiness is fake. Some people call it practicality or a way about moving ahead in life, the common phrase used by them is Lets move on. I call it an act of a coward. Today you may move but again there comes a phase in life where leaving a relation is not possible then what, then these people use word like sacrifice the things or compromise , again they are faking themselves, if one does not have the courage to face truth today, U'll never have it again. Life will move on, definitely but then U'll have a loop hole in life which u'll not even come to know and u'll start doing same things with different person with different name to the relation.
But the question lies still there only, Are you completely true to yourself or the person. Ans is No, only your brain lets you live in a fictitious world where you search same things but with different names, and u call it happiness. Where as Happiness lies in being true. If you don't believe me look back in your life some time back, U'll realize it. Moving on in life is not by changing relations or by thinking that things have finished, moving on means defining true relations, treasuring the moments and then never letting a hole in your life by missing one and searching for better person.
May be I'm wrong but this particular thought came in my mind as I was busy in fighting myself from last almost 5-6 months. Many a times I was pissed off, reacted badly but now I know that the biggest hindrance to mankind is EGO. We need to eradicate ourself from these worthless thoughts or at least learn the art to gain control over it . I know its very tough , but believe me the end result is very soothing and placid . Now , we don't allow this poisonous tree inside us to grow any more which is continuously sulking our happiness and satisfaction . I know , it will take time and strong will power to do this but we help each other by doing post on this blog .I strongly think if we root it out from us , we will make one step forward in the search of true happiness .
Take this as an opportunity , pick your phone ,keep your ego aside and call your friends/relatives to whom you want to call. I know after reading this you all may think this is all crap and cut the phone. But please don't think much , don't stop yourself to dial , don't let your brain to win over heart kyunki "KAL HO NA HO" . We can do STD , ISD but there is no facility to call in Heaven , so by reacting late and by too much pondering don't put yourself in such a helpless condition.
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