Some General Facts

I was taught in my early school days in fact everybody is taught about Living things and Non Living things. Living things are the things which will feel, which can sense and which RESPOND and RECIPROCATE. Examples of living things are humans, all the animals etc…On the other hand, non Living things are which cannot feel, which cannot sense and which CANNOT RESPOND & RECIPROCATE. Examples of non-living things are table, chair, wall, stone etc. However I don’t want to get into the controversy of living and non-living status of trees . Being a studious kid in school days (thereafter things changed little rather from d day i've entered college i donno "PADAI HOTI KYA HAI "….that’s a different issue we'll talk later ) I learnt this living and non-living concept so well and thought that the things in this entire universe can be categorized in to two categories. However now I can and that there is another category of things which feel, sense but DON’T RESPOND & RECIPROCATE inspite of having the ability to do so. And interestingly it lies inside human character itself....have been trying to find appropriate name for this category......

When we happen to see friends or acquaintances we think its basic manners to smile or greet them. But there are some people who don’t bother to smile, greet or react ..instead they stare at the people(whom they know already) so crazily as if they are seeing something like the Halley comet which appears once in 76 years. I don’t say we need to hug, kiss, giggle at every person we see. These sort of things give wrong signals..especially after ARTICLE 377 and if girls do these things…parents will be in danger ;). Something in excess is always dangerous. We can atleast exchange a smile . Our bank balance will not decrease by single smile of ours. For the the fact that it's the 2nd best thing you can do with the stretch of your lips...(was just a bad joke).

Among the many things parents teach Us when we are kids is when you receive anything then “Dadaji ko Thanks Bolo Beta”, “Aunty ko Thanks Bolo Beta”blah blah blah..... Interestingly as people grow big rather when they think they are matured they forget the basic manners of saying “Thankyou”. For ex- Agar Ladki ke saath bahar jaate hain to we boy's normally offer her chair to sit behave gently..etc.. but when with your own frnd "chal baith jaa yaar "Some people take persons for granted. The same applies for girls exam ke no. ho ya kahin preference chahiye they'll say "HUM PEHLE KAAM KAR LE TUM THODA WAIT KAR LO plSSSSS " nd other occassions they shout "we are equal to you"I do not say that offering is bad but why can't we have same standards for both genders as now it's been years we are talking about equality...For how long EQUALITY will be on paper only..let it come into practice. People don’t think there is ANY necessity to THANK those people. People in the home too require an occasional “Thankyou”, it makes them feel better. Of course it is not necessary to say thankyou every time and for every act but expressing it also means a LOT. Why should’nt we express our feelings when are capable to do so.

I might have written this entire post in a bit rude manner but the thoughts expressed are sincere and is just an attempt to reveal duality in nature......after all "BAAT KARNE SE HI BAAT BANTI HAI"

Be wat u are

Its very crazy when people just don’t accept you as you are, without respecting your feelings and your opinions. What is more sick is when people try to force their opinions on you, in the name of experience in life . If everyone’s life is same if everything has to happen according to some standard template then world might had not been a wonderful place. It might have been dead by monotony.

Setting some so called Milestones in life is practically foolish. People have this standard template : Complete schooling by this time, complete graduation in this subject with this percentage by this time, then get into research..then get into job..then get married..then have children..then get them educated..then get them married…then ….die only after everything is set…Gimme a break!!! Everyone want’s life to be normal. No one plans to create disasters in life and then try to pose to be a Hero. If your life is not according to the above mentioned template…people consider that “Your life is Handicapped”…..

People are so sick that they don’t let you build your life slowly and enjoy your life in its current state. They try to pull you down each and every time by showing you the bloody standard template of life. Much more sick issue is they try to give you gyaan by showing the case studies of the people who are successful by following the standard template. Oh My Good ness!!! If You were born to be like the other person why did God create You separately….You are unique in your own way…the situations you face in your life are different …why bother to hear those comparison tales.. BE YOURSELF. RESPECT YOURSELF. ACCEPT YOURSELF AS YOU ARE.

Kuch To Log Kahenge
Logon Ka Kaam Hai Kehna
Chhodo Bekaar Ki Baaton Mein
Kahin Beet Na Jaaye Raina
Kuch To Log Kahenge
Logon Ka Kaam Hai Kehna………..